When we hear of friends getting married in the Philippines, we think of
how good the wedding is gonna be. Where is it going to be? Who designed the
dresses and who’s handling the event? Will there be any trendy gimmicks at the
reception like a flash mob dance? There are so many things that come into mind
but one thing that we almost never ask ourselves is how good of a guest can we
be. If you’re invited to a wedding, be a darling and follow these 6 tips.
It’s stressful to plan a wedding and added to this stress is
not knowing who’ll be sure to come. The couple would really appreciate an
accurate head count not only because catering is paid for in plates, but also
seating is important to ensure everyone is comfortable and that the reception
looks packed. Respond to the invitation as soon as you can. It isn’t
embarrassing if you can’t come but it is stressful for the couple if you keep
them hanging.
Don’t Add your own Plus
One
Mind your invitation. If you are reserved for only one seat,
don’t bring a plus 1. Every seat has been thought out by the couple and you
bringing additional people could throw the whole party off by one seat. If you
really need to be accompanied by someone, get the couple’s permission.
Dress Up but Don’t
Stand Out
One thing you can’t do at a wedding is underdress. In the Philippines, it’s
becoming a trend to provide a style board or color pallet, so strictly follow
it. Look good but don’t overdress, too. When your friends are getting married, you
wouldn’t want to be a sore thumb that sticks out because you threw on an
obscure outfit.
Cut out on Complaints
Especially if you are someone close to the couple and
participated in the planning, you know full well how much time and amount of
work went into every detail of the wedding. On the day of the wedding, stop
complaining and just enjoy the event. Don’t fuss over minor details like the
taste of the food, the sound system, or if you think the decorations are tacky.
And you know why? Because…
It’s about the Couple
Every eye and all the love should be on the couple so don’t
taint this by putting your needs before the needs of the couple. Don’t make a
scene and start an argument out loud. In the same vein, don’t be a killjoy; if
you’re asked to participate, don’t hesitate or wait for the couple to beg.
Be Generous and
Gracious
Your beloved friend wouldn’t be getting married in the Philippines multiple
times so make sure that your participation to their married life counts. Don’t
be stingy on the gift. If they have a registry, make sure to check it out so
that you know and can get what the couple really needs. If they indicate that a
monetary gift is preferred, give what you can. It will surely help them build
their future.
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